They’re the ones who stand out in people’s memories, who can command attention (and affection) with seeming ease.One of the best things you can do – especially as a short man – is to develop your sense of presence.Presence is, simply, your ability to command people’s attention.
That’s Just remember: Cultivating an air of ease and self-assurance is not only attractive in and of itself, but it leads into my next tip: It’s not how tall you are; it’s how tall people feel you are.
There are some people who can fill a room, regardless of how tall they are or aren’t.
Instead, you want clothes that are relatively consistent in hue.
They don’t have to be perfectly monochrome – you don’t need to dress head to toe in black, for example – but keeping things within the same color-scheme helps the eye track over your body without stopping.
Even subtle patterns in the fabric, such as herringbone weaves, can help you slim your visual profile and make you seem taller.
However, you want to keep those stripes – think pin-striping, rather than wide blocks of color. Window-pane patterns are a definite no; the horizontal stripes and the negative space created negate the eye-tracking effect you’re looking this means clothes that are cut close to your body.
One of the mistakes that short men make is that they dress in ways that First and foremost: embrace monochrome.
One of the biggest mistakes that men make is to wear clothing with a strong contrast – a white shirt, brown belt and blue jeans for example.
When you can build presence, women won’t remember you as that short man at the party.