There is a double standard in society when it comes to dating a lot of people.
They may stay single for years, knowing that at some point they will find what they are looking for.
It is not a fear of commitment that keeps these men from settling down; it is a high sense of self-worth and the determination not to settle. Assuming men who break things off after a few weeks were only after sex.
Women tend to mentally write these types of men off. The reality is that many men date multiple women for the same reasons women date a lot of men.
They are looking for "the one." A lot of these perceived players are simply playing the numbers game, hoping to find that special someone as quickly as possible so that they don't have to endlessly date anymore.
The reality is that when high-quality men date a woman for a few weeks or more it is because they consider these women special.
These men genuinely want to give the relationship a shot and see if their feelings will grow into something more. When high-quality men give the relationship a fair shot and it still doesn't feel right, they don't stay with women just for the sake of being with someone.
If a man has only been on three or four dates with you in an entire month, he very well might be using you for physical relations.
However, if a man puts in two or more dates per week, this is definitely not the case.
So, why not start with a bad stuff – I am impulsive and restless at times, I can’t kill a fly, I cried twice like a girl when I watched “Notebook,” I cuss too often, and stay up way too late way too often. And what made you weak in your knees from joy and pleasure?