F**K it hurts for sure.I do not want him back…he didn’t treat me very well…I know he hasn’t changed…but UGH he really pushed the pain button in me…thanks for this…My ex moved on within two weeks after telling me he didn’t have enough time in his life for a relationship.
He claims he wasn’t cheating but I don’t know what to believe. He says now he just wants to get married and have a family – he knew that’s what I wanted.
You know, that thing you’ll never label your ex as being in because you’re more comfortable convincing yourself that he’s a changed, f*cktard-no-more, emotionally available, empathetic prince that’s now with a new/hot/cool girl who’s everything you never were and never can be.
He’s doing everything with her that he wouldn’t do with you, no matter how hard you tried.
If my ex doesn’t score with taking advantage of the rebound, there is a chance he will be coming right back. What’s different now, is that I saw the strategy my ex was trying to cook up because I was on the other side of the court watching him play. My family and friends are so shocked by his behaviour, could it be possible it’s a distraction and he doesn’t have to think about us parting?
It’s so unfair I’m here heartbroken and hoping for someone nice to come along whilst he’s off having a lovely time in the honeymoon period with someone else.
I came home to a note on the table after 12 years and the day before he was telling me he loved me.
The emotional abuse I felt was devastating and I never want to feel that again.I desperately don’t want to feel this way anymore and I keep being told how lovely I am and that I won’t be single for long, but I don’t have much faith that I’ll find someone else.It’s such a huge knock to your confidence and self-esteem it’s kind of unreal. Me and my ex broke up in March however we slept together at the end of May. Dont worry it just means we made them the happiest that theyre trying to copy it with the new girl Reading your comment helped as much as the article.And reading all of this really made me realize things, i thought because me and her were so different it couldn’t be a rebound because this time he had found a girl who was different and good for him but then i realized it is just a distraction he’s never gone longer than few months without a girlfriend so he always needs someone there to fill the void and it doesn’t mean she’s different/amazing/way better than me. Seems so crazy to everyone we know but your friends advice sounds pretty legit.I can truly say that your statement about tying his actions to your value, the white horse and being the one who got away has really begun to transform my thinking.I really loved him and i genuinely thought he was as happy as i was.